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    I am a disabled divorced mom of 2 girls (both with serious medical conditions) I was awarded indefinate alimony (family support) in 2006, with him also being ordered to hold medical insurance for the kids & reimburse me for 50% of all non covered medical & over the counter expenses too. In Feb. 2009 he texts my daughter @ school telling her to 'tell your mom I won't be paying the support anymore'. So then after having to quickly move out of my rental with my kids & put everything in storage & move in with family he served me with papers & had my support modified downward. The judge though also ordered him to submit each paystub to me within 2 days so I could know when his pay went back up & have my support raised back up. I also forgot to mention that he claims he was laid off , a victim of the bad economy which in reality he was fired for breaking company policy (I called his place of employment & spoke to 2 people) He has had virtually nothing to do with the kids, hasn't seen the youngest since 2006 (was ordered to go to counseling to try & repair the relationship & did not do it) hasn't seen my oldest in over 1 1/2 yrs., no contact, at all. He exposed both to very graphic porn & exposed himself as well. My youngest had a sort of breakdown this summer & had to go to the ER for depression/anxiety & is now on meds & seeing a counselor. Both children have serious medical issues as do I & my support is my only income. Can he modify the support again when he just did it in July? And how in the world can I get some serious help with this? We will lose our home (just moved into a place of our own with the help of grants. The DA is with holding from his checks but he says now hes been laid off again & won't be paying me? Can't a judge tell him to get any job & satisfy his obligations? I am desperate, running out of money & am trying desperately to locate a probono attorney to help us (oregon). I am supposed to have surgery soon & my oldest just received a serious diagnosis & we are all on daily medications. Please someone help me.

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    Re: support modification again & non-payment of both support & medical

    email this site on their home page and ask if they can supply some pro bono time

    they did for me and it was life saver -- even that 8 hours of help changed my life

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