We are in CA
I filed for divorce 11/13 and had my then husband served by a reputable personal service. He told me he would fight my request to move to Southern California with our son, then later he said he couldn't be bothered. He got a default notice, then some revised financial papers. No response. Finally my default judgement was signed last week and we are divorced as of yesterday.
I don't know for sure whether I really want to move but I have no family support up here and my ex is not a very involved father plus he's often out of town and mean to him as well. So I kind of want to look into moving. There is a position open close to my family. My worry is that I'll get a new job and start planning to move and then he'll get mad and go back to get the default set aside. I've read some places he has 30 days, others 90 and 6 months. Anyone know?
I filed for divorce 11/13 and had my then husband served by a reputable personal service. He told me he would fight my request to move to Southern California with our son, then later he said he couldn't be bothered. He got a default notice, then some revised financial papers. No response. Finally my default judgement was signed last week and we are divorced as of yesterday.
I don't know for sure whether I really want to move but I have no family support up here and my ex is not a very involved father plus he's often out of town and mean to him as well. So I kind of want to look into moving. There is a position open close to my family. My worry is that I'll get a new job and start planning to move and then he'll get mad and go back to get the default set aside. I've read some places he has 30 days, others 90 and 6 months. Anyone know?
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