I am in desperate need of some tips. I am an active duty Air Force nurse stationed in California and had a child with a man that lives in Tennessee. This man and his wife have been petitioning for full custody since two weeks after he was born. My son is six months old, breastfeeding, on a breathing monitor and only seen dad on a few occasions. The father has done everthing from subpeana my cell phone, computer, hold evidentiary hearing's and the like to try to wear me down. I have asked for a stay in proceedings several times related to my military service and been denied. The legal advice I have been given is that " sorry you ended up with a magistrate that wrote legislature for equal father's rights " most recently I have been ordered to fly my child back to Tennessee every 30 days to stay with dad for ten then he flies him back to me and we do this all over again 20 days later. This would require me to stop breastfeeding. Does anyone care about my six month old being thrown on 3 hour time zone changes, six hour flights each way and no structure or stability for more than 10-20 days at a time. I don't know what to do and I need help. I have used all of my leave with the military and I am on the verge of getting in trouble, I have to take two days off to fly him there and one day off to get him from the airport. I have to show up for hearing's etc. all while this is costing me a fortune with the plane tickets etc. I am at witts end. does anyone know anything I can do?
Any help is appreciated.
Any help is appreciated.
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